Einmal ist niemals Zweimal ist einmal Dreimal ist immer There is always talk of change: the impending changes in politics, mannerisms, taste, style, or love. However, the latter is seldom discussed. The change in love is a topic that deserves utmost respect and scrutiny. The melancholic change that love brings is often thwarted by one's pride; it is buried under damp soil that suffocates the truth of love. One should lean into this change and love's abrupt ending instead of fighting it. True love often involves admitting that one cannot change themselves, and hence they forgo love in consideration of their lover's agony. When a lover leaves, whether by their own volition or due to exogenous factors, we should not demand that they stay. When they ask us to change, we should consider if we can. If we cannot change and we tell them we can, then we only prolong the suffering. It is a trait of a weak person to lie to themselves in order to appease others, for it not only hurts themselves but also the ones they love.
Valentines Day Poem
Valentines Day Poem
Valentines Day Poem
Einmal ist niemals Zweimal ist einmal Dreimal ist immer There is always talk of change: the impending changes in politics, mannerisms, taste, style, or love. However, the latter is seldom discussed. The change in love is a topic that deserves utmost respect and scrutiny. The melancholic change that love brings is often thwarted by one's pride; it is buried under damp soil that suffocates the truth of love. One should lean into this change and love's abrupt ending instead of fighting it. True love often involves admitting that one cannot change themselves, and hence they forgo love in consideration of their lover's agony. When a lover leaves, whether by their own volition or due to exogenous factors, we should not demand that they stay. When they ask us to change, we should consider if we can. If we cannot change and we tell them we can, then we only prolong the suffering. It is a trait of a weak person to lie to themselves in order to appease others, for it not only hurts themselves but also the ones they love.